ferber or sears?

last nite, while working, joelle called me saying she and megan already reached home... they were supposed to spend the nite at joelle's mum place but somehow, megan just cry and cry and cry... it seems like she is recognising place and people... and so, joelle LL got to bring megan back home... and maybe she cried too much, and now, she woke up crying, as if still recalling her crying ordeal... haiz, tot her cough recovering and i can get back my sleep but now.... dun know how long she need to get over it liao...

now, back to the question, did i carry megan too much? i checked the web, and it says nothing about carrying baby too much, and its old wives' tales... baby this age, should be shown lotsa love, and not leaving there like nobody's child... ok, maybe i overdo it liao, now got to let megan cry it out a bit, before carrying her...

now i'm stuck with the 2 schools of thoughts... should i go for the ferber (cry-it-out) method or sears (no tears) method? 好难做决定哦... 还是暂时别想这个, 花一点时间呼吁呼吁一下... vote for me oh... keke

what she wants... really...

i did mention she love doreamon, didn't i? she can just quietly lay there and watch doreamon... and after that, she sleeps. and so, i started reading the notes i brought back home, getting myself ready for tonight's work at office, to setup the new emc ax4-5 storage... boring stuffs to be mentioned here... :P

and in fact, so the boring stuff, after 1 hour of struggling to keep myself awake while reading the notes, i decided to take a nap... so, i carry megan to our bed, and wah lah, she woke up...

she turned to the windows... think she sleeps?

nah... still pretty much awake...

then she turned back to me and do this at me:

what she really wants wor? tot she is hungry cuz of her mega puke this morning... made milk for her, and she dun want! tot she is mischievous again, so try and try until give up, carry her and hmmm songs to her and then, she sleeps... kaoz... 原来是要睡觉而已哦...

i better go take a nap too... home alone with baby is no easy task... wonder how joelle managed to do so during her maternity leave... :P

to joelle,

hi dear, while you're at work, i've fed and bathe our little angel. she is getting mischievous nowadays, and dun want her milk when you feeding her, cuz i think she wants to play and be hold first... so, after you left home for work, i lay her on her pinky chair and not giving her attention and just watch tv... less than 5 minutes, she is wailing for attention, and so, i carry her and fed her and she finishes it in no time!

after letting her rest for a while, i fed her antibiotic and it was a success! she didn't split out wor... just only have to feed her with the syringe, little by little...

then when the water boils, i gave our little one a shower... it all goes well until when i just finished washing her hair and dried it and was about to put her on the water... she mega-puked... all over herself and me... must be the angle i'm holding her when washing her hair... its just enough not to let the water flow from her hair to her face but also just enough to make the milk flow back out from her stomach... kaoz... the question is, how to clean a baby when your body is full of her puke? figure it out yourself, and i'm not telling... haha~~~

anyway, still managed to bathe our little one... soothe her and played with her until she dozed off on FM96.3, the classic radio station... and me? i've showered too, and gonna make some coffee and eat bfast after this post...

btw dear, have a smooth day at work and we miss you!!!

PS: i also got to go back office after 4pm... haiz...

oops, megan wakey le... can hear her making the ummm, ammm and emmm sound again... switched on the TV and found out... did she wakey in time for her favourite doreamon cartoon??

拧檬茶 & 菊花茶

just now, while on train back home with joelle, we were talking the blog awards thingy... i tell her, if we win the notebook, she can use the notebook and start her own bloggie... joelle jokingly say must think of a blog title for her first... and so, i told her the list of ideas...

1. 菊花茶  :  juhacha.blogspot.com

2. 东瓜茶  :  dongguacha.blogspot.com

3. 绿茶  :  lucha.blogspot.com (but its taken liao)

4. 奶茶 : naicha.blogspot.com (kaoz... also taken liao)

5. 珍珠奶茶 : zhenzhunaicha.blogspot.com (aiyo, also taken liao)

 

haha, 我们想太多了... cuz, first, we must get that notebook first... :P

and so, 大家再接再厉, 踊跃投拧檬茶一票... 投多多票也无所谓... keke...

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